Disclaimer: It’s pretty hard to do a review about this book without spoilers because if you read the summary of the book, or the acknowledgements, or the first chapter, or you know anything about Dominican history, you know what the outcome will be. I will not give anything away that is not clear from the book flap or the first chapter.
Wow. What a beautifully sad story.
This was not an easy read by any stretch of the imagination, but it was an awesome read without a doubt. The alternating POV’s are fascinating - I’m coming to realize that I really like that style of writing. For about the first ¼ of the book, I had a hard time keeping the sisters straight (who was who, what order they were in age wise etc) but as you get to know the sisters better you can tell who you are reading without actually having to see their name. Each has a distinct personality that makes them very much their own person.
I think that I enjoyed reading about Maria Teresa (Mate) most. Given that she is the youngest, I think you see the most change and growth in her. The diary entries are a unique way of telling her side of the story.
All the girls were courageous in their own ways and had their own stories to tell. I think I enjoyed this so much because it’s about such strong and yet compassionate women… who also have their flaws and weaknesses. Alvarez made them seem very real.
There were parts of this story that made me angry, parts that made my stomach tighten and feel sick and parts that had lumps forming in my throat. By the end of the book, I felt very connected with each of the sisters and you really feel for Dede and her loss. It’s as if the sisters were physically part of each other and I got the feeling that Dede had been living as only ¼ of herself since the death of The Girls.
I’m not normally a fan of books that span over such a long period of time, but this was definitely an exception. It was really interesting to see each girl grow-up and mature and really added to your connection and sense of emptiness and grief by the end.
I really recommend this book to anyone who enjoys fiction based on fact. The story of the Butterflies is a sad one but one that’s worth the read.
Viva Las Mariposas!
Friday, April 30, 2010
The Sign of the Twisted Candle
Nancy Drew: The Sign of the Twisted Candles was the book the started my obsession with reading. My sister had the entire ND collection and had loved them, but I had showed little interest. My parents, in an effort to ignite a love of reading (on my own), offered me $1 for every Nancy Drew book I finished. They also told me to keep a log of any words I didn’t understand and we could discuss them after (I was pretty young).
Eager for money, I randomly picked The Sign of the Twisted Candles off of the shelf and began reading. Within pages I was hooked and by the time I finished, I forgot to get the money from my parents. I kept reading though, but only for the sheer enjoyment.
GoodReads Description: While solving the mystery of an old man's disappearing fortune, Nancy ends a family feud and reveals the identity of an orphan of unknown parentage.
Nancy’s adventures are a wonderful way to get reluctant readers reading. As a kid, you just have to know what happens and I spent many nights in the hideout under my bed with a flashlight. I’ve been a bookworm ever since (obviously).
Wednesday, April 28, 2010
Hiking and Camping and Reading.... Oh My.
This past weekend turned out to be exactly what I wanted. I was so bummed when Monday rolled around, but I'm excited for the opportunity to head back to the park soon.
We spent Friday night getting packed up for camping (which was interesting since Bub can't lift anything over 20lbs right now) and then on the couch catching up on some of our PVR'd shows.
Saturday we were up and out of the house by 8am. After a quick stop for gas and Timmy's we were on the road. We made really good time and were in the park by 10am. The weather was gorgeous (it was sunny and 19 degrees) and the girls were anxious to get out of the car....
...so while I went in to the information center for a park map, Bub took them on a little walk. Then we headed to Tea Lake to set up camp.
I'm not a fan of Tea Lake because it's really meant for transient campers who need a place to stay before heading into the interior via canoe or one of the backpacking trails, and therefore affords little privacy and very small sites. However, for us for one night this weekend it was fine. We didn't have much choice because only 3 campgrounds were open, the others remaining closed until the middle of May. Luckily it wasn't busy so even though that site was pretty open, we weren't on top of our neighbours. We were however right on the water, which I was of course very happy about.
We got camp set up in no time so we headed back out to start hiking. On the way, we drove right past a "lady moose" eating right at the side of the road. By the time I realized she was there, it was too late to stop anywhere safely to get some pictures, but she was definitely there and very content to watch the traffic go by.
Our first stop was Mew Lake to buy some firewood and so that I could show Bubba the waterfall and rapids my family used to visit and play in when I was a kid camping in the park. I was a little worried I wouldn't be able to find them since they're not marked, but with luck I picked the right trail head and only a few minutes deep into the bush I could hear the water, so we basically walked right to it.
We had planned to eat our lunch at this spot, but there was a group of backpackers already set up there (it's at the start of a 3 day backpacking trail) and I didn't feel like sharing the space with them, so we took a few pictures, enjoyed the scenery and then headed back out to the car to hit up a few different trails.
Clearly we weren't the only ones having lunch of the bluff that day. Oh the circle of life... how cruel mother nature can be.
We also very obviously were following closely behind a herd of deer as well since every 50 or so feet, we had to step around giant piles fresh of you know what. Lovely.
Then we headed to Big Pines Trail, which is a 3km loop that takes you through an amazing old growth pine forest. The trees were seriously HUGE:
It was a really gorgeous trail.
Our last hiking stop of the day was Peck Lake Trail which is another 2km loop that takes you around the shores of- you gueses it- Peck Lake. This was probably my favorite of the day. Any trail that leads you to, or around water is always a win for me. We were lucky enough to see this guy hanging out in the lake for most of our hike:
You can't tell from the pictures, but we were actually able to get pretty close to him in a cove until he dove and came back up in the middle of the lake. It's times like these that I wish I had a decent camera rather than my simple point and shoot.
We, unfortunately, ran into another dog who was quite vocal about wanting to meet our girls (who had no interest in stopping for him) and I'm quite certain it was his loud barking that effectively ruined our chances of seeing any more wildlife on this particular trail. Regardless of that, it was a very nice walk.
We had to keep to the easy trails because Bub's back and shoulder are still bugging him and after 7kms of hiking and probably another 1 or 2kms in walks at Mew Lake and at the gate when we arrived, it was time to call it a day before he started getting sore. Jenny and Lola were done too- I can always tell because instead of sniffing and exploring, they stick right to my heels and continually look up at me as if to say "okay Mum, it was fun while it lasted, but we're done now".
We headed back to the campsite for the evening after stopping the (closed) Portage Store. I laid down a few towels and gave the girls a busy bone each, but Lola didn't even touch hers before she was fast asleep. Jenny made it about 1/2 way through her bone and then zonked our herself. There's something very satisfying about seeing a dog who is so tired from a day you know they enjoyed so much.
So, while they slept, Bub and I set up fordinner and the fire and then played a few games of cards. The day was still abosultely gorgeous and we were both comfortable in our shorts and tee-shirts.
Dinner was bacon wrapped steak medallions with potato and ceasar salad! So yummy. I, as the dummy I am, forgot to bring soap, so we rinsed our hands and dishes in lake, making clean-up a breeze. We played a final game of cards and then took the dogs on another walk around the campsite. Although this may sound crazy, it was solely for the purpose of letting the dogs strectch their legs and do their business as they had to be kept on leashes since we were so close to the (campground) road at our site- we were basically ON the road actually.
Now, those that know me know that I am a complete tea addict. I was sure to get an extra-large a Timmy's Saturday morning to get me through the day (and so I could get the extra tea bag), but by 7pm I was really craving a tea.
Unfortunately we don't have a coleman stove because it's a piece of equipment we haven't needed at the cottage. We did have a mini bbq though so I though we'd try to boil a little water on that... unfortuantely, as ready as I was for tea we had no luck getting the pot to boil on the bbq or over the fire. It was so disappointing, especially since this was right about when it started to cool down outside.
We grabbed the girls and sat on a the rock at the water for a bit watching the sun go down and as it got dark, we started putting on more clothes a layer at a time and Bub got the fire going. We parked our butts in front of it and didn't move for the rest of the evening. We busted out the treats at this point (chocolate bars and chips) and by the time those were done, I didn't even want a marshmellow!
By this point it was pretty cold, so we had to make sure that the girls were comfortable. Lola was up on my lap under the blanket and we made Jenny a puppy burrito in her fleece blanket on the ground.
Even that wasn't enough for her eventually and she got up with Bub. Eventually I cold feel the cold setting in an knew that it was time to go to bed so that the cold didn't hit my bones and last all night. The girls came with me while Bub stayed out with the fire until it died.
We made it through the night pretty toasty with a sleeping bag, a duvet and a comforter and I slept fairly well actually. Early Sunday morning we were up and out for a drive to look for Moose. Unfortunately we didn't see any and I was pretty disappointed thinking that I didn't have the opportunity to take any pics of the one moose we did see. We did see 2 wild turkeys which freaked Bub right out given his fear of birds. They don't get much bigger or uglier than that. We went back to the campsite, had quick breakfast and then packed up. It was absolutely freezing and we were anxious to get going and out of the biting wind.
On the way out, this is what we saw!!!!
...a Mama and her yearling getting a salt fix at this bog off the highway. I was happy to finally see them and have the opportunity to get some photos. I hopped out and got a few shots, but Mama wasn't overly imppressed at my being there. She was definitely keeping an eye on me. We spent a couple of minutes with them but then a van and motorcycle pulled up and Mama sent the babe into the bush, so we left.
We made it home and after unloading the car and getting the back grass cut and the yard poop scooped, we made our favorite weekend lunch and watched Bull Run (GO HEMI-CUDA!!). I had a nice bath and read my book and then migrated to the bed where I napped and read for the rest of the afternoon. It was heaven. Bub had a work thing for dinner so I made a chicken breast and ceasar salad and watched Avatar and then went to bed early.
I don't know what to say about my dogs though because they're still exhausted. They slept all the way home from the park and ALL DAY yesterday. I even had hard time getting them out of bed this morning. They're totally beat from the all the fresh air and hiking... poor babies.
The whole weekend was fantastic. No exams looming over my head, great weather, the chance to read, the chance to be outside.... it was awesome.
We spent Friday night getting packed up for camping (which was interesting since Bub can't lift anything over 20lbs right now) and then on the couch catching up on some of our PVR'd shows.
Saturday we were up and out of the house by 8am. After a quick stop for gas and Timmy's we were on the road. We made really good time and were in the park by 10am. The weather was gorgeous (it was sunny and 19 degrees) and the girls were anxious to get out of the car....
...so while I went in to the information center for a park map, Bub took them on a little walk. Then we headed to Tea Lake to set up camp.
I'm not a fan of Tea Lake because it's really meant for transient campers who need a place to stay before heading into the interior via canoe or one of the backpacking trails, and therefore affords little privacy and very small sites. However, for us for one night this weekend it was fine. We didn't have much choice because only 3 campgrounds were open, the others remaining closed until the middle of May. Luckily it wasn't busy so even though that site was pretty open, we weren't on top of our neighbours. We were however right on the water, which I was of course very happy about.
We got camp set up in no time so we headed back out to start hiking. On the way, we drove right past a "lady moose" eating right at the side of the road. By the time I realized she was there, it was too late to stop anywhere safely to get some pictures, but she was definitely there and very content to watch the traffic go by.
Our first stop was Mew Lake to buy some firewood and so that I could show Bubba the waterfall and rapids my family used to visit and play in when I was a kid camping in the park. I was a little worried I wouldn't be able to find them since they're not marked, but with luck I picked the right trail head and only a few minutes deep into the bush I could hear the water, so we basically walked right to it.
We had planned to eat our lunch at this spot, but there was a group of backpackers already set up there (it's at the start of a 3 day backpacking trail) and I didn't feel like sharing the space with them, so we took a few pictures, enjoyed the scenery and then headed back out to the car to hit up a few different trails.
Our next stop was Two Rivers Trail- a 2km loop that takes you to the top of a gorgeous bluff overlooking an absolutely fantasic (and seeminly never-ending) landscape.
This is where we decided to stop for lunch (my favorite part of hiking- eating!) While we were eating I noticed this....
Clearly we weren't the only ones having lunch of the bluff that day. Oh the circle of life... how cruel mother nature can be.
We also very obviously were following closely behind a herd of deer as well since every 50 or so feet, we had to step around giant piles fresh of you know what. Lovely.
Then we headed to Big Pines Trail, which is a 3km loop that takes you through an amazing old growth pine forest. The trees were seriously HUGE:
It was a really gorgeous trail.
Our last hiking stop of the day was Peck Lake Trail which is another 2km loop that takes you around the shores of- you gueses it- Peck Lake. This was probably my favorite of the day. Any trail that leads you to, or around water is always a win for me. We were lucky enough to see this guy hanging out in the lake for most of our hike:
You can't tell from the pictures, but we were actually able to get pretty close to him in a cove until he dove and came back up in the middle of the lake. It's times like these that I wish I had a decent camera rather than my simple point and shoot.
We, unfortunately, ran into another dog who was quite vocal about wanting to meet our girls (who had no interest in stopping for him) and I'm quite certain it was his loud barking that effectively ruined our chances of seeing any more wildlife on this particular trail. Regardless of that, it was a very nice walk.
We had to keep to the easy trails because Bub's back and shoulder are still bugging him and after 7kms of hiking and probably another 1 or 2kms in walks at Mew Lake and at the gate when we arrived, it was time to call it a day before he started getting sore. Jenny and Lola were done too- I can always tell because instead of sniffing and exploring, they stick right to my heels and continually look up at me as if to say "okay Mum, it was fun while it lasted, but we're done now".
We headed back to the campsite for the evening after stopping the (closed) Portage Store. I laid down a few towels and gave the girls a busy bone each, but Lola didn't even touch hers before she was fast asleep. Jenny made it about 1/2 way through her bone and then zonked our herself. There's something very satisfying about seeing a dog who is so tired from a day you know they enjoyed so much.
So, while they slept, Bub and I set up fordinner and the fire and then played a few games of cards. The day was still abosultely gorgeous and we were both comfortable in our shorts and tee-shirts.
Dinner was bacon wrapped steak medallions with potato and ceasar salad! So yummy. I, as the dummy I am, forgot to bring soap, so we rinsed our hands and dishes in lake, making clean-up a breeze. We played a final game of cards and then took the dogs on another walk around the campsite. Although this may sound crazy, it was solely for the purpose of letting the dogs strectch their legs and do their business as they had to be kept on leashes since we were so close to the (campground) road at our site- we were basically ON the road actually.
Now, those that know me know that I am a complete tea addict. I was sure to get an extra-large a Timmy's Saturday morning to get me through the day (and so I could get the extra tea bag), but by 7pm I was really craving a tea.
Unfortunately we don't have a coleman stove because it's a piece of equipment we haven't needed at the cottage. We did have a mini bbq though so I though we'd try to boil a little water on that... unfortuantely, as ready as I was for tea we had no luck getting the pot to boil on the bbq or over the fire. It was so disappointing, especially since this was right about when it started to cool down outside.
We grabbed the girls and sat on a the rock at the water for a bit watching the sun go down and as it got dark, we started putting on more clothes a layer at a time and Bub got the fire going. We parked our butts in front of it and didn't move for the rest of the evening. We busted out the treats at this point (chocolate bars and chips) and by the time those were done, I didn't even want a marshmellow!
By this point it was pretty cold, so we had to make sure that the girls were comfortable. Lola was up on my lap under the blanket and we made Jenny a puppy burrito in her fleece blanket on the ground.
Even that wasn't enough for her eventually and she got up with Bub. Eventually I cold feel the cold setting in an knew that it was time to go to bed so that the cold didn't hit my bones and last all night. The girls came with me while Bub stayed out with the fire until it died.
We made it through the night pretty toasty with a sleeping bag, a duvet and a comforter and I slept fairly well actually. Early Sunday morning we were up and out for a drive to look for Moose. Unfortunately we didn't see any and I was pretty disappointed thinking that I didn't have the opportunity to take any pics of the one moose we did see. We did see 2 wild turkeys which freaked Bub right out given his fear of birds. They don't get much bigger or uglier than that. We went back to the campsite, had quick breakfast and then packed up. It was absolutely freezing and we were anxious to get going and out of the biting wind.
On the way out, this is what we saw!!!!
...a Mama and her yearling getting a salt fix at this bog off the highway. I was happy to finally see them and have the opportunity to get some photos. I hopped out and got a few shots, but Mama wasn't overly imppressed at my being there. She was definitely keeping an eye on me. We spent a couple of minutes with them but then a van and motorcycle pulled up and Mama sent the babe into the bush, so we left.
We made it home and after unloading the car and getting the back grass cut and the yard poop scooped, we made our favorite weekend lunch and watched Bull Run (GO HEMI-CUDA!!). I had a nice bath and read my book and then migrated to the bed where I napped and read for the rest of the afternoon. It was heaven. Bub had a work thing for dinner so I made a chicken breast and ceasar salad and watched Avatar and then went to bed early.
I don't know what to say about my dogs though because they're still exhausted. They slept all the way home from the park and ALL DAY yesterday. I even had hard time getting them out of bed this morning. They're totally beat from the all the fresh air and hiking... poor babies.
The whole weekend was fantastic. No exams looming over my head, great weather, the chance to read, the chance to be outside.... it was awesome.
Monday, April 26, 2010
WeeklyToDo- April 26 to May 2
-grocery store-complete
-file taxes-complete
-pay property tax-complete
-finish In the Time of The Butterflies (47 pages/day)- complete
-cut front grass
-send claim for optomistrist visit-complete
-stop by re-store (kitchen drawers)
-wash and dry sleeping bags
-dry-out tent
-cleaning (kitchen, bathrooms, floors)-complete
-wash camping laundry-complete
-upload camping pictures pictures-complete
-find out where math class is and what the required materials are-complete
Friday, April 23, 2010
Into the Wild (we go)
My macro exam was PAINFUL, but it's over so I don't even care. All I have to do now is wait for my marks for this semester. I have the next week and a half (two full weekends!!!!) sans school! Summer classes start on the 3rd with a devil of a math class. So, I plan to take full advantage of this school-less time to get caught up on some stuff.
We're going camping in Algonquin this weekend!! The site is booked and I called today to make sure there were no fire bans (yeah- it's WAY to early to camp without a fire for heat here) and checked the weather network (19 and sunny!). So, we'll get the car packed up tonight and head up early tomorrow morning. I plan to spend the day hiking to some places that we used to go to when I was kid so I can show them off to Bub. I'm most looking forward to trying to find this little waterfall/rapids we used to swim in. If I can find it- it's an unmarked trail off of a trail that's off of another trail... and it's been about 15 years since I've been there- we're going to picnic lunch there.
We'll get the girls good and worn out and then head back to the campsite for steak and ceasar and then a campfire (complete with beer and marshmellows) :) I plan to get up early on Sunday morning a) because it's supposed to rain to I'll want to get the tent down before it gets soaked b) because I want to take a tea down to the lake and just enjoy the quiet for a couple of minutes and c) because I want to go shoot some moose (just pictures of course) and the best time is first thing in the morning.
I'm so excited I can hardly stand it. Hopefully I'll get some good shots to post here. I've told everyone that I'll be in the wilds of Algonquin for the weekend and not to try to contact me. I need some peace, space and fresh air. It's going to be great.
We're going camping in Algonquin this weekend!! The site is booked and I called today to make sure there were no fire bans (yeah- it's WAY to early to camp without a fire for heat here) and checked the weather network (19 and sunny!). So, we'll get the car packed up tonight and head up early tomorrow morning. I plan to spend the day hiking to some places that we used to go to when I was kid so I can show them off to Bub. I'm most looking forward to trying to find this little waterfall/rapids we used to swim in. If I can find it- it's an unmarked trail off of a trail that's off of another trail... and it's been about 15 years since I've been there- we're going to picnic lunch there.
We'll get the girls good and worn out and then head back to the campsite for steak and ceasar and then a campfire (complete with beer and marshmellows) :) I plan to get up early on Sunday morning a) because it's supposed to rain to I'll want to get the tent down before it gets soaked b) because I want to take a tea down to the lake and just enjoy the quiet for a couple of minutes and c) because I want to go shoot some moose (just pictures of course) and the best time is first thing in the morning.
I'm so excited I can hardly stand it. Hopefully I'll get some good shots to post here. I've told everyone that I'll be in the wilds of Algonquin for the weekend and not to try to contact me. I need some peace, space and fresh air. It's going to be great.
Monday, April 19, 2010
Today's Post Has No Name
So I’m coming up for air from studying and working briefly, to take a few deep breaths and calm myself. In the interest of expediency I will make this a point form list of things going on.
-macroeconomics final exam (worth a measly 60% of my mark) is Wednesday night at 7pm. Ack! I’m terrified because I just can’t wrap my head around a lot of the material… I’m going to be studying my butt off for the next couple of days when I’m not at work
-I sacrificed my Saturday morning, drove all the way to school and paid $40 to take an exam prep class on Saturday morning (prep specifically for my ECON exam) and didn’t come out any further ahead. What a waste of time and money
-My house is a disaster: I didn’t get any cleaning done and the lawn needs to be cut so bad (and our fudging lawnmower is broken AGAIN) and… I just feel overwhelmed when I walk in the door. I hate a messy house, but it’s going to have to wait until Thursday when my exam is over and I have some time again
-I’ve been “reading” the same book for 2 weeks now and am only about 50 pages in. I feel guilty because it’s my April Buddy Reads book, but again- it’s one of those things I can really concentrate on when my exam is over. I’m not back at school until May 3rd after Wednesday night.
-My SIL is getting married in October and we’re in the throes of wedding/shower etc planning and it’s been…. interesting so far. I’m a little concerned about how much it’s all going to cost (since we’re both in the wedding party), but we’ll figure it out.
-If the weather is nice enough the weekend, we heading to Algonquin Park very early Saturday morning to hopefully see some wildlife, do some hiking and possibly camping overnight before the park gets really busy for the season. I’m sooooo excited. I want to spend the day hiking around here:
and wakeup the following morning here:
Fingers crossed that the weather holds out! It's still only April and that means very cold nights here in Ontario. If we don’t end up going , I’ll spend the weekend getting my house under control and working on some projects around the house that have been on my to-do list for far too long. Oh! and reading.
-I’m still waiting for the copy of Will Grayson, Will Grayson that I ordered from The Book Depository. Not that it matters, because I’m not ready for it yet anyway (see above) but I want to have it in my hands and on my bookshelf. I'm a little impatient.
Okay- that’s it. Work to do.
-macroeconomics final exam (worth a measly 60% of my mark) is Wednesday night at 7pm. Ack! I’m terrified because I just can’t wrap my head around a lot of the material… I’m going to be studying my butt off for the next couple of days when I’m not at work
-I sacrificed my Saturday morning, drove all the way to school and paid $40 to take an exam prep class on Saturday morning (prep specifically for my ECON exam) and didn’t come out any further ahead. What a waste of time and money
-My house is a disaster: I didn’t get any cleaning done and the lawn needs to be cut so bad (and our fudging lawnmower is broken AGAIN) and… I just feel overwhelmed when I walk in the door. I hate a messy house, but it’s going to have to wait until Thursday when my exam is over and I have some time again
-I’ve been “reading” the same book for 2 weeks now and am only about 50 pages in. I feel guilty because it’s my April Buddy Reads book, but again- it’s one of those things I can really concentrate on when my exam is over. I’m not back at school until May 3rd after Wednesday night.
-My SIL is getting married in October and we’re in the throes of wedding/shower etc planning and it’s been…. interesting so far. I’m a little concerned about how much it’s all going to cost (since we’re both in the wedding party), but we’ll figure it out.
-If the weather is nice enough the weekend, we heading to Algonquin Park very early Saturday morning to hopefully see some wildlife, do some hiking and possibly camping overnight before the park gets really busy for the season. I’m sooooo excited. I want to spend the day hiking around here:
and wakeup the following morning here:
These aren't my images- I grabbed them through a google search.
Fingers crossed that the weather holds out! It's still only April and that means very cold nights here in Ontario. If we don’t end up going , I’ll spend the weekend getting my house under control and working on some projects around the house that have been on my to-do list for far too long. Oh! and reading.
-I’m still waiting for the copy of Will Grayson, Will Grayson that I ordered from The Book Depository. Not that it matters, because I’m not ready for it yet anyway (see above) but I want to have it in my hands and on my bookshelf. I'm a little impatient.
Okay- that’s it. Work to do.
Wednesday, April 14, 2010
Cover Love Wednesday
Julie over at Book Hooked started Cover Love Wednesday, which I'm am really digging because, I'm totally guilty of judging books by their covers. A lot. Half the fun of browsing in a book store is looking at all the gorgeous covers.
So... to get started, I'm not going to go with a theme or anything this week. I'm just going to post a few that have caught my eye recently:
So... to get started, I'm not going to go with a theme or anything this week. I'm just going to post a few that have caught my eye recently:
Halo- Alexandra Adornello (Sept 2010)
The Disappeared by (CANADIAN) Kim Echlin
These are all books that I will buy (actually- I already own Fallen) for the sole reason that I think they are absolutely gorgeous and must have them for my collection. What can I say? Some like sculpture or art... I collect beautiful books.
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